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Here at Untangled Mind℠, you'll discover my deep passion and ongoing pursuit of rigorous, evidence-based mental health care. Through this blog, I share thoughtful insights, practical strategies, and reflections drawn from the Untangled Mind Pathway℠, my structured, measurement-based framework designed to move beyond subjectivity toward real, trackable progress. I love exploring ideas that elevate standards in therapy and empower both clients and clinicians. Most posts have a companion episode on the podcast, so be sure to check out both.
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Catching Flak: When Pushback Becomes a Wall
When I speak directly about problems in our field, as I did in a recent LinkedIn exchange, the reactions are telling. Many colleagues agree, admitting what they already see: therapy has slid into endless nodding, soothing, and emotional co-signing. Clients leave comforted for an hour but unchanged in their lives. Others admit they dislike this trend but feel pressured to conform to “hold space” rather than challenge. This isn’t new. Clients often come to me after cycling thro
Piper Harris, LPC
Oct 4, 20256 min read
Overcoming Flight Anxiety: How a Structured, Data-Driven Approach Works
Flight anxiety is one of the most common fears I encounter in my practice. For some, it shows up as mild worry at the thought of...
Piper Harris, LPC
Sep 29, 20254 min read
The Tyranny of Choice
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Piper Harris, LPC
Sep 22, 20254 min read
When Tragedy Strikes: Understanding the Psychological Impact of Trauma
In the past weeks, headlines have once again reminded us how fragile life can be. When innocent lives are taken, whether through...
Piper Harris, LPC
Sep 15, 20255 min read
What Makes Counseling Work? Here’s My Answer.
What makes counseling actually work? It’s a question clients often carry into their first session, and one I’ve asked myself for years as...
Piper Harris, LPC
Sep 8, 20254 min read
When Contradictions in Care Leave Clients Unsafe: Why Termination Was the Only Option
As counselors, our first responsibility is always the well-being of the client. That commitment can sometimes place us in uncomfortable...
Piper Harris, LPC
Aug 28, 20259 min read
Steering the Ship: Standards, Boundaries, and Expectations in Relationships
Every relationship is like a ship. Some sail steadily toward their destination, while others drift off course or sink under pressure....
Piper Harris, LPC
Aug 25, 20254 min read
Unfinished Business and the Power of the Unsent Letter
The Gestalt Concept of Unfinished Business Fritz Perls, the founder of Gestalt therapy, often spoke of “unfinished business”: the unresolved emotions, conflicts, or unmet needs from past relationships or events that remain active in the present. These lingering experiences can show up as intrusive thoughts, heightened reactivity, or persistent emotional distress. Perls saw these as “figures” that had not been fully resolved or integrated, leaving people stuck in repetitive cy
Piper Harris, LPC
Aug 18, 20253 min read
Why “Resolved” Matters: The Missing Goalposts in Therapy
Most therapy models encourage clients to set goals , but too often, those goals are vague. “I want to feel better.” “I want less...
Piper Harris, LPC
Aug 11, 20253 min read
Food Is Memories: The Tangerine
In her short piece Borderland , found in The Art of Eating , M.F.K. Fisher captures something that neuroscience would later confirm: food...
Piper Harris, LPC
Aug 3, 20253 min read
What a 17th-Century Philosopher Got Wrong About Trauma (and What We Know Now)
Image: Lin Health In the 1600s, René Descartes famously wrote, “Cogito, ergo sum” ," I think, therefore I am . With that phrase, he drew...
Piper Harris, LPC
Jul 27, 20252 min read
Chasing Happy
A few weeks ago, I gave myself space for a practice I use quarterly: free association. Originally a psychoanalytic tool, free association...
Piper Harris, LPC
Jul 21, 20253 min read
You’re Not Too Much—You’re Just in the Wrong Room
There’s a lie that creeps into too many minds, especially the ones I work with. It doesn’t usually sound like “I’m worthless.”It sounds...
Piper Harris, LPC
Jul 14, 20252 min read
Truth Over Comfort: What I Say as Your Therapist Without Sugarcoating It
There’s a trending reel format circulating on Instagram: “What I’d say as your therapist if I wasn’t worried about your feelings.” But...
Piper Harris, LPC
Jul 7, 20252 min read
All I Need to Know If We Could Work Together Comes Down to a Shopping Cart
Small acts reveal big truths. The parking lot of a home goods store gave me all the data I needed. A mother and her teenage daughter...
Piper Harris, LPC
Jun 30, 20253 min read
When Talking Helps—And When It Doesn’t:
When Conversation Becomes a Loop, Real Progress Stalls Therapy is a space where people often expect to “just talk”—and there’s a reason...
Piper Harris, LPC
Jun 23, 20252 min read
5 Brutal Truths About Suffering Well
You can’t become who you’re meant to be without the burn. We live in a world obsessed with avoiding pain. Grief? Numb it. Sadness?...
Piper Harris, LPC
Jun 16, 20252 min read
7 Truths Men Need to Hear About Mental Health & PTSD
June marks both Men’s Mental Health Awareness Month and PTSD Awareness Month . While these campaigns may show up as hashtags or...
Piper Harris, LPC
Jun 9, 20254 min read
When Feedback Feels Unsafe: The Attachment Wounds Behind Resistance
It happens more often than people admit: they walk into therapy or coaching seeking clarity and growth, only to find themselves bristling...
Piper Harris, LPC
Jun 2, 20253 min read
Burnout Before Summer Even Starts? It Might Be Decisional Fatigue
It’s not even officially summer, and I already feel like I’m running on fumes. The past few months have been a whirlwind—balancing client...
Piper Harris, LPC
May 27, 20253 min read
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