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Election Day Jitters? How to Handle Anxiety, Set Boundaries, and Stay Sane




Election Day is here, bringing an electric mix of anticipation and, for many, anxiety. It’s a time when beliefs and values come to the forefront, and navigating different perspectives can feel daunting. The stress doesn’t end here, though—soon, holiday gatherings will throw us right back into situations where family and friends might not see eye-to-eye. The challenge? Managing Election Day anxiety now and setting strong boundaries to stay sane all season long.


If Election Day has you on edge, you’re not alone. Many feel tension on days like this, as political conversations stir emotions that can easily impact our mood, relationships, and sense of stability. While it's tempting to immerse ourselves in news updates or heated discussions, taking a step back and focusing on what we can control can help us find a sense of calm in the chaos.


How to Manage Election Day Anxiety


  1. Acknowledge and Accept Your Emotions

    Recognizing that Election Day can stir up intense feelings is the first step. Rather than fighting or suppressing them, take a moment to acknowledge them. By naming these emotions—whether it’s anxiety, frustration, or anticipation—we make them easier to manage.


  2. Focus on What You Can Control

    Today, you’ve done your part by voting. While we can’t control the outcome, we do have control over our actions and responses. By choosing to stay present and focusing on things within our reach, we can prevent feelings of helplessness from spiraling.


  3. Set Boundaries for Political Discussions

    Consider setting boundaries around conversations, especially with those who may see things differently. Politely excusing yourself or steering the conversation elsewhere are small actions that can make a huge difference in managing your emotional well-being.


  4. Limit News and Social Media Intake

    While it’s tempting to stay glued to the news, overconsumption can intensify stress. Set specific times to check for updates, or give yourself permission to wait until tomorrow. Taking a break from the constant news cycle can provide a valuable mental reset.


  5. Engage in Calming Activities

    Sometimes, the best way to ride out Election Day stress is through distraction. Read a book, take a walk, spend time with loved ones—ground yourself in activities that bring you peace. Focusing on these moments can help you feel centered amid the day’s intensity.


Preparing for the Holiday Season


Election Day may be the start, but the holiday season brings more gatherings and potential stressors. Family get-togethers often mean engaging with a mix of perspectives and beliefs. If this is a source of stress, you’re not alone.


To help you navigate these upcoming interactions with confidence, consider my mini-course, Season's Bliss: Holiday Boundaries. This course is designed to help you handle sensitive conversations, establish clear boundaries, and protect your mental well-being through the season. The tips and techniques in Season’s Bliss can help you stay grounded, whether it’s during an election debate or a holiday dinner table discussion.


Key Takeaways for Handling Election Day and Beyond


Election Day is an opportunity to practice setting boundaries and managing stress—skills that will serve you well throughout the holidays. By focusing on your own emotional health, you not only protect your peace but set a tone for meaningful, respectful interactions in the weeks ahead.


So take a deep breath, limit what you consume today, and remember: the real power lies in how we choose to engage, respond, and protect our mental space. And if you’re looking for a deeper guide to navigating challenging conversations, check out Season's Bliss: Holiday Boundaries to feel prepared, confident, and empowered through Election Day and beyond.

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